Kuldevi Saptami: Worshipping the Family Shakti You May Not Know

A Kuldevi Saptami live on worshipping the family shakti.

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01

What does "Kul Shakti" cover, and when is it worshipped?

Kul Shakti means every power present in the lineage, not the Kuldevi alone

· 03:03–03:37 · Also a question

Not the Kuldevi alone but every power present in the lineage. Some tithi in Shravan has always been set aside in every Sanatani household for the worship of its family powers — most often the Goddess's principal Yoginis, who stand as Kuldevi alongside Mahadeva.

02

Why do all powers gather around Shiva during Shravan?

Every power attends on Shiva through the month of Shravan

· 03:38–03:59 · Also a question

Because in Shravan every kind of power — Mahashakti, Upashakti, deities, sub-deities, and even Bhoot, Pret and Pishach — takes its place near Bhagavan Shiva and spends the month in his service, as an extended form of the single night of service that is Mahashivratri.

03

Why do knowledgeable practitioners advise against Griha Bandhan during Shravan?

Why binding rites are avoided while the powers are gathered elsewhere

· 04:00–04:44 · Also a question

Because a binding takes hold of some power, and if that power is present in Shiva's service at the time, its own order is broken by being drawn away. It is not forbidden outright — the counsel is to keep the movement of powers to a minimum this month.

04

Complete the Siddhi within Shravan and perform the application in Bhadrapada

Accomplish the mantra in Shravan, apply it in Bhadrapada

· 04:45–05:50

Shravan Purnima is fine, as is the following month of Bhadrapada, which carries a power of its own. The clean division is to complete the Siddhi of a mantra or Kavach during Shravan and perform the application — protection, Griha Bandhan or anything else — in Bhadrapada.

05

Is it possible for a household to have only a Kuldevi and no Kul Devta, or the reverse?

Every family power exists as a pair, whether or not both are known

· 05:51–06:50 · Also a question

Worship whichever you know of by custom — but internally it can never be that a paired power does not exist. Even where the worshipped power is a Kumari, there will be some greater power alongside her; she simply may not hold the authority to receive your worship directly.

06

Why do so few families still know who their original Kul Shakti was?

How the original family power was lost across the generations

· 06:51–08:19 · Also a question

Because a lineage branches with every generation, and the most fundamental Kul Shakti is now scarcely worshipped anywhere. In roughly 90% of households the original power has been let go and something else has taken her place.

07

How does a power taken in through Abhichar end up worshipped as the family deity?

A substitute power seated beside the Kul Devta within two generations

· 08:20–10:03 · Also a question

Someone afflicted by Abhichar gives a power a place in the house on its promise to do the household good. It then sits alongside the Kul Devta receiving worship, and one or two generations later it is known simply as the Kul Shakti — nobody remembering how it arrived.

08

Why has annual worship become the ceiling for family deities?

The taboo that limits Kul Shakti worship to once a year

· 10:04–11:36 · Also a question

A taboo has been planted that once a year is enough and no more should be done — but no deity ever forbade daily remembrance of the Kuldevi. Alongside it runs the old warning that too much worship attracts spirits, which the speaker traces to people frustrated with their own deities.

09

A lineage loses its knowledge when it neglects and abuses whoever actually holds that knowledge

The neglect of the class that carries the knowledge

· 11:37–12:44

The neglect of whoever in a society actually holds the knowledge — a person of any birth who knows the deities, the Puranas and the tradition, and who tries to explain it. That person, the speaker says, is the one who receives the most abuse.

10

Sadhana answers only after years, and the ease it brings is what ends it in the next generation

The cycle of struggle, response, and the comfort that breaks it

· 12:45–14:30

The generation that is beaten down — by enemies, by Tantra, by debt — keeps itself motivated and worships. The speaker says the response in his own life began only after about ten years of a practice started in 2002-03. Then the Kul Shakti grants health, wealth and progeny, and what that generation hands on is ease rather than practice.

11

What should a child actually be taught at home?

The practices parents decide not to pass on to a child

· 14:31–16:05 · Also a question

Brahma Muhurta, Svasti Vachan, Ganapati's Stotra, the Sahasranama, how a Rudrabhishek is done — the things parents decide the child does not need because studies come first. The child may still refuse the path, the speaker says, but not making the attempt is the parent's own lack.

12

Merit reaches the child but Sanskara does not, because the capital of sadhana is never given

The capital of sadhana, which is never handed down

· 16:06–17:35

The capital of your own sadhana. Merit passes to children as surely as fault does, so they inherit health and means — but they inherit no Sanskara, because the one thing parents are miserly with is the practice itself.

13

Why should Sri Chakra and Kamakhya mantras not be taught openly?

Broadcasting mantras that carry their own conditions

· 17:36–18:50 · Also a question

Because whoever teaches them that way does not know whether the worship of the Sri Chakra or a Kamakhya mantra is to be told to anyone at all, or in what manner. The speaker says households have already been ruined by it, and others will be ruined imitating them.

14

Why is worldly success called the lowest of the Siddhis?

Material success as the lowest of the three kinds of Siddhi

· 18:51–20:35 · Also a question

Because of the three kinds of Siddhi, the material successes of human life — a good car, a good house, wealth, sons and grandsons, a life free of debt and anxiety — are held to be the lowest. It is still divine grace, but of the lowest level, and it stops short of Moksha.

15

If you do not know your family deity, whose fault is that?

The gap in your knowledge belongs to your forebears, not to any teacher

· 20:36–21:45 · Also a question

Your forebears'. If you do not know your Kul Shakti and are frustrated about it, that is their bequest — you cannot blame a discourse-giver, a Puranic reciter, a storyteller or a knower of Tantra for it. Their omission; and now your responsibility not to repeat it.

16

Does merit earned by worship cancel the fruit of a misdeed?

Merit fruits in the next world; the misdeed is still borne in this one

· 21:46–24:25 · Also a question

No. The speaker says the Shiv Mahapuran states it plainly: merit earned after a misdeed will certainly bear fruit, but in the spiritual world and the next world, not in the material one. The misdeed committed here still has to be borne here.

17

Why do transgressive subjects always find the largest audience?

Audiences gather where confusion and transgression are on offer

· 24:26–26:53 · Also a question

Because people enjoy subjects that produce confusion, and flee from ones that demand labour. Talk about Pashupatastra, Brahmastra, Khadgamala or Shri Chakra Archan and the live goes viral at once — the price, the speaker says, being paid across a hundred births afterwards.

18

Why is the life in your body attributed to the Kul Shakti?

Birth into a lineage happens only because its Shakti wills it

· 26:54–27:44 · Also a question

Because until a Kul Shakti wills it, birth cannot occur in her lineage at all. She examines a soul against her own capability and admits it in the expectation that it will do the lineage good — no parent, and no Shakti, wishes a harmful soul into the family.

19

Are the ancestors and deities pleased when a child is born into a family?

Ancestors and deities celebrate a birth as they do a Shraddha

· 27:45–29:31 · Also a question

Yes. Just as ancestors are greatly pleased when a person sets out to perform Shraddha rites, they beat drums at a birth in the expectation that this soul will act well and perform Shraddha and Tarpan. The deities are pleased on the same grounds.

20

Does a person's success bring their family deities into public view?

A lineage's fame carries its deities' fame with it

· 29:32–30:42 · Also a question

Yes — and the speaker argues no Kul Shakti would want otherwise. He points to the sixteen-armed Durga at Deori near Ranchi becoming widely known after a cricketer from that region won a World Cup, the temple's fortunes changing entirely.

21

Mockery of the capable comes out of frustration, and is followed by borrowing their devotion

Mockery born of frustration, and devotion borrowed from the successful

· 30:43–33:13

Because the mockery is an attempt to cool a mind that knows it cannot match that capability. The same people then begin worshipping whoever the successful person worships — hoping the same Siddhi will come to them.

22

What is the mistake in adopting the deity of a successful person you admire?

Adopt the devotion, but never displace your own family power

· 33:14–34:38 · Also a question

Taking up their deity is fine; removing your own Kul Shakti to do it is the error. The speaker compares it to treating a mentor as a father in place of the one who gave you birth — others may be father-like, but not in the father's place.

23

Capability received from a Guru's Gaddi arrives without the practitioner's own labour

Power inherited from the Guru's Gaddi, and what happens once it is free of vows

· 34:39–36:41

From the Guru's Gaddi. One who receives the traditional powers of his Guru's seat obtains that kind of capability without any special effort of his own — it is the capability of the Gaddi, which is to say Bhagavati's grace, earned through Guru Seva rather than through his own sadhana.

24

How does a practitioner get their own deity installed in someone else's house?

The escalation from a liquor offering to a permanent installation

· 36:42–38:45 · Also a question

By stages. The work is done and the client is impressed; then a liquor offering in that deity's name near the house, for eleven days, then twenty-one; then gradually the deity itself is installed in the client's home and worshipped there permanently.

25

A power installed by manipulation hollows out the very house that worships it

Worship that hollows out the house it is performed in

· 38:46–39:40

You will be told to recite the Durga Chalisa, the Durga Satnam, the Bagalamukhi Satnam — while behind it the installed power hollows out your entire household. You perform it; the practitioner receives it. His source of energy has been established in your home.

26

A power seated in the lineage is worshipped as a family deity whatever form it arrived in

In Shravan every kind of power in the house receives worship

· 39:41–40:05

In the month of Shravan every kind of power is worshipped — a Yogini, a Dakini, or a power seated in your house in the form of a Bhoot or Pret. Once it stands as your Kul Devta and is addressed as Baba, the speaker says, it will not remain a Bhoot or Pret for you; in the lineage its worship will happen.

27

Should the Prasad of another family's Kul Devta be eaten?

Why another lineage's Prasad is not consumed

· 40:06–40:55 · Also a question

No. The Prasad of another family's Kuldevi or Kul Devta should not be consumed — and where such Prasad reaches you, feed it to Gau Mata, whose digestive fire is held capable of consuming and digesting every kind of Laag.

28

Who may eat the Saptami Prasad, and who may perform the worship?

Household rules on Prasad and on who performs the rite

· 40:56–42:00 · Also a question

Only the household. Where a family's rule is that daughters do not take the Prasad or touch the Kul Devta, or that only the men of the house cook, worship and eat it, that rule is to be kept — do not have it transgressed on the strength of modern preaching.

29

What if no man of the house is available to perform the family worship?

Why this question goes to your own elders and not to a channel

· 42:01–43:51 · Also a question

Ask the elders of your own family, not him. He refuses to answer because a wrong suggestion could wreck your life — he cannot even say to call a Brahmin, since worship by an outside hand may not be accepted there, and he does not know which deities yours are.

30

Can a practitioner reliably identify another family's Kul Shakti?

Why an outside reading of your family power is rarely accurate

· 43:52–45:11 · Also a question

Not to 100% accuracy, and the reason is structural: the power seated in your house may be eight or ten generations old and far stronger than the power the enquirer commands. He cannot obtain that information, and does not have the capability for it.

31

What does a Brahm Shakti require before granting full grace?

A Brahm is pleased through Shiva and through Badi Bhavani

· 45:12–45:57 · Also a question

Two things: the great Chandika — Bhagavati Durga, called Badi Bhavani in the Bhagatwal tradition — and Shiva. Offering the Somvar and Amavasya Satvik worship alone will bring grace, but very limited grace, and you will feel that this is all there is.

32

Who is Badi Bhavani?

Badi Bhavani as Jagadamba, against the folk classification

· 45:58–47:09 · Also a question

Badi Bhavani means Jagadamba, seated in full form with complete capability. The speaker rejects the folk scheme that calls a dead unmarried girl Bhavani, a burned married woman Sati, a dead pregnant woman Kalika and her unborn child Bhairav.

33

Where is the strongest power of a locality usually found?

The oldest Durga or Chandika shrine holds the region's strongest power

· 47:10–49:16 · Also a question

At the oldest Durga worship site of that region — an old Durga, Chandika or Kali temple, especially one where Bali is offered or Mahishasura Mardini is worshipped, at least fifty to a hundred years old. That place's most formidable power is certainly present there.

34

The person you consult may lack either the capability or the humility to tell you the truth

Capability, humility and envy in the person you consult

· 49:17–52:49

Either he cannot — his power is a hundred years old and yours is ten generations old — or he will not: he will evade and give half-true or wrong information. He tells you only if he wishes your welfare, if the matter is between equals, and if he is humble.

35

What happens if a practitioner tries to seize another lineage's power?

Seizing a family power, and the reckoning that follows

· 52:50–56:35 · Also a question

The seized powers may come, out of regard for your mantra-strength — but they will fold their hands to their own superior, and the reckoning comes from there. Everything you had seized and everything you had earned is confiscated at that point.

36

Why do households of great Chandi Path practitioners sometimes fall into ruin?

Why a great practitioner's house can still fall into ruin

· 56:36–59:29 · Also a question

Because you are only seeing the ruin from outside. What you are not seeing is the misdeed committed after capability was obtained — the exploitation of powers, the imbalance that arrives with power, and the loss of restraint that follows it.

37

How should a practitioner who has gained capability conduct themselves socially?

Reduce contact, and never spend Tapobal on an insult

· 59:30–1:00:19 · Also a question

Come into society as little as possible, keep few friendships, and hold no attachment. If someone abuses you, abuse them back if you must — but never turn your Tapobal on them. Say four words and walk away; do not sit with water in hand and curse.

38

Is there ever a case where a practitioner should curse?

The one case where a Sankalp of curse is warranted

· 1:00:20–1:02:38 · Also a question

Where a genuine atrocity has occurred — he cites a child harmed abroad — and no other path is open, then you should. Take a Sankalp on the merit of one lakh of japa asking the Goddess to deliver just punishment swiftly. Used to harm, the same act rebounds on you.

39

Which day should Kuldevi worship be performed on?

Your own family tithi if known, otherwise Shravan Shukla Saptami

· 1:02:39–1:03:04 · Also a question

If you know your family's own tithi for it, that is best — use it. If you do not, perform the worship of your Kul Shakti on the Saptami of the Shukla Paksha of Shravan, in whichever year you are watching this.

40

What should be worshipped if you do not know who your family deities are?

Shiva-Gauri and the nearest Shakti Peeth, in the family power's name

· 1:03:05–1:03:24 · Also a question

Worship Shiva and Gauri, and the Shakti Peeth nearest to you, in the name of your Kul Shakti — praying that whoever your family power may be, this worship should reach them.

41

What is offered to the Kuldevi and the Kul Bhairav at the annual worship?

Sixteen Shringar for the Kuldevi, dhoti and gamcha for the Kul Bhairav

· 1:03:25–1:03:53 · Also a question

For the Kuldevi, the sixteen Shringar as far as your means allow — saree, saya, blouse cloth, bangles, sindoor, mehndi — without compromising on quality even if buying cheaply. For the Kul Bhairav, a dhoti and gamcha in red, yellow or pink as you please.

42

A Deoghar-region household can take Baba Vaidyanath as the Bhairav and Bhagavati Jay Durga as the Shakti in place of unknown family deities

Baba Vaidyanath and Jay Durga standing in for the unknown family deities

· 1:03:54–1:04:56

Take Baba Vaidyanath as the Bhairav and Bhagavati Jay Durga — where the Goddess's heart is held to have fallen — as the Shakti, and worship them as your Kul Shakti. Offer pink, red or yellow cloth and Shringar to her, yellow cloth to Shiva, and kheer-puri as Naivedya at both places.

43

What is Panchbali at the Kuldevi worship, and why is it included?

Feeding five creatures so the ancestors and deities are satisfied too

· 1:04:57–1:05:43 · Also a question

The donation of grain to five kinds of creature — ants, the cow, the crow, the dog, and one person, feeding someone hungry. Through them the lineage's ancestors are satisfied and the deities are satisfied as well.

44

How is the Havan performed if you do not know your family deity?

Naming the oblations to the nearest Jyotirlinga and Shakti Peeth

· 1:05:44–1:07:22 · Also a question

Offer to Bhavani Shankar and the nearest Shakti Peeth — 108 oblations each. With a Yajnopavita use the Pranava; a woman with no man available uses the Devi Pranava instead, as "Hreem Vaidyanathaya Swaha" and "Hreem Jay Durgaya Swaha".

45

Which woods may be used for this Havan, and which may not?

Wood for the Havan, and the prohibition on mango

· 1:07:23–1:08:13 · Also a question

Do not use mango wood. Use Navagraha woods, Bel wood, or Sal wood — which is fragrant and burns very well — and cow-dung cakes. Bel is best of all, and Purnahuti follows at the end.

46

What pleases the Kul Shakti most in the Havan?

Tantrokta Devi Suktam with kheer and cow ghee

· 1:08:14–1:09:04 · Also a question

Offering with the Tantrokta Devi Suktam — whoever your Kuldevi may be — and mixing cow ghee into the kheer for the oblations. The speaker says the Kul Shakti becomes so pleased that she returns her full affection.

47

Which regional Shakti should be named in the Havan?

Naming the region's presiding Shakti in every Havan

· 1:09:05–1:11:29 · Also a question

The presiding Shakti of your region: Jay Durga in Jharkhand and Bihar, Bhagavati Vindhyavasini in Uttar Pradesh, Chhinnamastika near Ranchi and Jamshedpur, and Bhagavati Bagalamukhi at Vaidyanath Dham, whose manifestation place that is held to be.

48

What should be done if the family Shakti is known to be displeased?

The jaggery-kheer oblation for a displeased Kul Shakti

· 1:11:30–1:13:25 · Also a question

Make Rasiyao — kheer with jaggery instead of sugar — mix in black sesame, curd and cow ghee, and offer 108 oblations with Bel leaves, using her own name. The speaker calls this a gentle application, not a Shatkarma.

49

How should the Bel leaf be prepared before it is offered?

Breaking the stalk of the Bel leaf before offering it

· 1:13:26–1:14:21 · Also a question

Break off the stalk at the top, where the knot-like part forms, before offering — do not offer it whole. Offered whole it pricks the mouth, and the speaker's reasoning is that what causes us pain will cause pain to the deity it reaches.

50

At what point in "Swaha" is the oblation actually released?

Releasing the oblation on the "aa" of Swaha

· 1:14:22–1:16:46 · Also a question

On the "aa" — not before saying Swaha, and not while saying it, but at the "aa" sound within "haa". The speaker explains it through the fire being addressed as a small child: you feed a child when it opens its mouth and says "aa".

51

What emotional state should a Havan be performed in?

Pausing when tears come, so the pronunciation stays clear

· 1:16:47–1:17:53 · Also a question

Only surrender to your Ishta — neither emotional nor angry, no Kama-bhava nor any other. If devotional tears do come, that is good, but stop offering for a while: the reason for the rule is that the mantra should not be mispronounced, not that any fault attaches.

52

Should a mantra you do japa of be spoken aloud during oblations?

A japa mantra is said mentally; only Swaha is spoken aloud

· 1:17:54–1:18:26 · Also a question

No. The mantras you perform japa of are not spoken aloud during oblations — if you do japa of the Panchakshari, do not say it aloud with Swaha. Say the mantra mentally and speak only Swaha aloud, exactly as you do in japa.

53

What should be done on Saptami by someone who cannot afford the full worship?

The coconut Khappar, at two to three hundred rupees

· 1:18:27–1:23:23 · Also a question

The Khappar method: a large dried coconut split lengthwise into two bowls, filled with cashew, raisin and camphor and kindled — one for the Kuldevi on your right, one for the Kul Bhairav on your left. The whole thing costs about two to three hundred rupees.

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The Sankalp is taken with water in hand, and the Kul Bhairav's Khappar is lit first

The Sankalp, and lighting the Kul Bhairav's Khappar first

· 1:23:24–1:25:02

Take water in hand, state your name and Gotra, and say that on this Kuldevi Saptami you are performing this worship to the best of your means for your Kul Shakti's pleasure. The Khappar on your right is the Kuldevi's, the one on your left the Kul Bhairav's — light the Bhairav's first.

55

The Khappar is offered in the name of the region's Shakti Peeth and its Bhairav

Naming the Khappar to the region's Shakti Peeth and its Bhairav

· 1:25:03–1:26:03

To the Shakti Peeth of your area and its Bhairav — Vimala and Jagannath in the Purushottam Kshetra, Kalighat's Kali with Nakuleshwar Bhairav in Calcutta, Tara with Akshobhya Bhairav near Tarapith — with the prayer that it reach your own Kuldevi.

56

What is the minimum observance for someone who can afford almost nothing?

Five betel leaves, five lamps and nine passes of Aarti

· 1:26:04–1:26:48 · Also a question

Five betel leaves, five supari, ten cloves, ten cardamom, and any sweet you can make at home. Light the Karma Sakshi lamp and five small ghee lamps, offer everything on the betel leaves, and perform camphor Aarti at least nine times.

57

What should a household with ample means do on Saptami?

Where means allow, service of creatures and giving in the Kuldevi's name

· 1:26:49–1:27:46 · Also a question

Worship at home, perform service of living creatures, and give to Brahmins, learned people, those you are devoted to, or a temple — with the whole purpose held as the Kuldevi's, that she should grant grace. Do according to your means.

58

Coconut Bali goes by a man's hand, lemon Bali is unrestricted, and Chhag Bali is not done at home in Shravan

Coconut and lemon Bali, and who should not offer them

· 1:27:47–1:28:49

One coconut Bali for the Kuldevi and one for the Kul Bhairav, offered by a man where possible — a pregnant woman in particular should not, and women generally should not break the coconut. Lemon Bali is entirely permitted; Chhag Bali should not be done at home in Shravan.

59

Should Muhurta, Rahu Kaal and Nakshatra be checked for this worship?

Whether to consult the Muhurta on a Shravan festival day

· 1:28:50–1:29:30 · Also a question

His own view — stated as Bhava, not scripture — is not to look at tithi, Nakshatra, Muhurta, Rahu Kaal or Ketu Kaal during Shravan, and simply to do it. Those who prefer principle over person should check the Muhurta; the essential thing is that it gets done.

60

What should be done in the days after Kuldevi Saptami?

Daily remembrance of whichever deity you worshipped on Saptami

· 1:29:31–1:31:09 · Also a question

Whoever you worshipped and performed the Havan for, remember and worship them daily from that day on. Recite their name while walking about — and if you hold no Guru mantra, name-japa carries no fault whatever anyone says.

61

Should an established daily practice be added to over time?

Adding to a settled practice without changing the deity

· 1:31:10–1:33:22 · Also a question

Yes, for established practitioners — because doing the same thing indefinitely once it is fully practised leaves the mind wandering. Add to it: fold the Devi Suktam mantras into your sixteen-upachara worship, or embed verses of the Sahasranama. Adding is not changing the deity.

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Yantra understanding arrives the way a fast calculation does

Yantra understanding arriving like a fast calculation

· 1:33:23–1:34:22

Because once the Suktas have been practised and divine grace is present, the workings of a Yantra resolve the way integration and differentiation do for someone quick at mathematics — how a Yantra will be constructed and what will follow simply presents itself.

63

Who is authorised to perform the Rudra Chandi Path?

Adhikara is stated in the text itself, not settled by a famous voice

· 1:34:23–1:37:10 · Also a question

Read the text: it states plainly that not everyone can perform it, and for whom it is forbidden. The speaker refuses to rule on it from a channel, and points out that when a famous teacher says anyone may, ten lakh people accept it and scripture is set aside.

64

Why are the Badi Mata and Pret Mata shrines at Vindhyachal kept closed?

The Badi Mata shrine at Vindhyachal, closed to general darshan

· 1:37:11–1:38:23 · Also a question

Because these are extremely formidable powers. Pret Mata's darshan can still be had, but Badi Mata's is not given — her history has been very fierce and not everyone should go there. It is proper to salute her from outside and take her blessing.

65

What can be done for the protection of a pregnancy?

Three consecrated protections for a pregnancy

· 1:38:24–1:41:39 · Also a question

Three options, all consecrated by a Kavach you have accomplished — best of all the Kamakhya Kavach: a red thread with thirteen knots tied at the waist; a Gomti Chakra with red Gunja sealed in red cloth; or black papaya seeds gathered in Pushya Nakshatra and sealed in black.

66

How is the Tantrokta Devi Suktam adapted for a Kuldevi Havan?

Inserting "Kul Divyai Swaha" into the Devi Suktam oblations

· 1:41:40–1:42:51 · Also a question

The Devi Suktam oblation runs "namastasyai swaha, namastasyai swaha, namastasyai namo namah swaha". For the Kuldevi, insert the dative: "namastasyai kul divyai swaha" — not "kul divye namah", since the fourth-case ending takes the "ai" vowel.

67

How can Rahu and Ketu be pacified at home without a specialist?

Cleanliness, Ganapati, the flag and the street dogs

· 1:42:52–1:44:54 · Also a question

Four things: keep the house and especially the bathroom scrupulously clean on Saturdays and Wednesdays and keep the soles of your feet clean; worship Shiva's family and the Sankatnashan Ganapati with twelve Durva; fly Hanuman's red flag with a lamp morning and evening; and feed the street dogs before you eat.

68

What temple service pleases Rahu and Ketu?

Replacing a torn temple flag, and offering the Chandani

· 1:44:55–1:45:28 · Also a question

Cleaning and serving at a temple; and where a temple's flag is torn, helping to have it replaced — paying for it, having one made. Offering the Chandani, the canopy stretched above the Goddess's place, pleases both as well.

69

What Shiva Abhishek pacifies Rahu, and what is the silver Naag-Naagin method?

The silver Naag-Naagin offered in a copper pot of milk

· 1:45:29–1:46:49 · Also a question

Abhishek a Shivling that still has the serpent fitted to it. On Amavasya, have a small silver Naag-Naagin made for a hundred or hundred and fifty rupees, put it in a copper pot of milk — copper only for this — and offer it at a temple, reciting the Panchakshari mentally. Once fallen on Shiva, they are not touched again.

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What should a family do whose Kuldevi Saptami tradition has been lost entirely?

Where no family tradition survives, the session itself is the procedure

· 1:46:50–1:48:18 · Also a question

Do exactly what has been described in this session — the whole live is on this. A listener from Madhya Pradesh is told the same: look for the Shakti Peeth nearest your area and take that. For the Karma Sakshi lamp, the channel already has four or five videos.

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Does caste determine who a family's Kuldevi is?

Caste does not settle who your Kuldevi is

· 1:48:19–1:48:44 · Also a question

No — being a Yadav or a Kshatriya makes no difference to it. Who the Kuldevi is has to be looked into for that family; it cannot be stated from caste. If it is unknown, worship the nearest Shakti Peeth as described.

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Can the Kuldevi's worship be done by donating at a temple instead?

The sevenfold temple donation is a Vidhan, not a substitute measure

· 1:48:45–1:50:53 · Also a question

Yes — seven Shringar, seven kinds of sweet and seven kinds of fruit may be given in donation at a temple in the Kuldevi's name. The speaker is careful to say this is not offered as a workaround: it is a Vidhan by which her grace comes.

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Should a locally powerful but recently manifested goddess be taken as the main one?

The region's ancient Shakti stays principal; a recent one is named alongside

· 1:50:54–1:51:37 · Also a question

No — keep the region's ancient Shakti as the principal one. For a listener in Gorakhpur the speaker says to worship Bhagavati Vindhyavasini principally, while a locally formidable goddess whose manifestation is not held to be very old should also receive service and worship in her own name.

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How should a Shivling and its Arghi be kept at home?

A separate Arghi, with Vasuki, Trishul and Nandi

· 1:51:38–1:52:29 · Also a question

For a householder they should be separate — the Arghi below, of brass or stone, with the Shivling set on top; never a single joined piece. Narmadeshwar or crystal, with Vasuki fitted (five-hooded is best), the Trishul, and Nandi.

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What if a household already worships its Kuldevi on a different tithi?

Keeping your own family tithi over the general Saptami

· 1:52:30–1:53:55 · Also a question

Keep your own. If your household has always performed the Kuldevi worship on Purnima, perform it on Purnima and do an ordinary worship on Saptami. Those who know their tithi use it; those who do not, all use Saptami — which is why it is called Kuldevi Saptami.

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