A Fifteen-Day Havan at the Threshold — The Kul Shakti Prayog for Dev Shraap and Pitr Shraap
A havan prayog to regain one's kula shakti's grace.
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Havan prayog for the grace of the kula's presiding shakti: purpose and who should do it
A fire rite for those under dev shraap or pitr shraap
The speaker presents a prayog for obtaining the grace of the adhishtatri shakti of one's own kula, and says it is entirely a havanatmak prayog done through fire. He says every person who is afflicted by the shraap of the Kul Shakti, the shraap of the Pitr shakti, or is receiving any kind of dev danda should do it. The causes he lists are a mistake in puja-path, an offence at a temple done knowingly or unknowingly, the breaking of a Shri Vigraha, something of a temple being broken, or a theft done in a temple in confusion; such acts, he says, bring the shraap of the devatas and make the kula's shaktis fully displeased.
The speaker says this prayog is for obtaining the grace of the adhishtatri shakti of one's own kula, and that it is fully a havanatmak prayog: the whole of it is done through the Havan fire. He says every person should do it who is somewhere afflicted by the shraap of the kul shakti, afflicted by the shraap of the pitr shakti, or upon whom some kind of dev danda is falling. He spells out what brings this on. Some mistake may have been made in puja-path. At some temple an offence may have been committed knowingly or unknowingly. A Shri Vigreh may have been broken. Some object of a temple may have been broken. Or in confusion a person may at some time have committed some kind of theft in a temple. By such acts, he says, the shraap of the deva attaches, the shraap of the devatas, and the shaktis of the kula become completely displeased. He adds that he is placing a very simple method before listeners so that everyone who wants to move ahead on the path of sadhana may benefit.
Symptoms of dev shraap and pitr shraap
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The speaker says that under a dev shraap or pitr shraap the mind becomes so disturbed and confused that a person can do nothing even with every fit means in hand: he may own property worth crores yet not be able to sit and eat properly, or have a twenty-lakh car at the door and not have it in him to put petrol in it. The sign he gives for dev Dosha is that the person keeps asking others what his trouble is and what its root cause is, yet never gets an answer, or hears one and does not accept it. He adds that insulting the devatas produces the same vaicharik state.
The speaker describes the condition that a dev shraap and a pitr shraap produce. The mind, he says, becomes so disturbed and confused that with every fit means available to you, you can still do nothing. You may have property worth crores, yet you will not be able to sit and eat properly. A car worth twenty lakh may stand in front of your house, yet the capacity to put petrol in it and move it will not be in you. This state, he says, arises from a dev shraap, from a pitr shraap, from the devas and the pitrs and the shaktis of the kula being displeased. He says the rite is for exactly that time: when you feel that you are trying to do a great deal and want to, but are so confused that you cannot make out what to do. You keep asking someone again and again: what is my trouble, tell me, what is the root cause of my difficulty. And he says you will not get the answer, and if you do get it you will not accept it, and no one will be able to make you understand what it is. This confusion, he says, is the sign that it is dev dosha. Whether it comes through a vaicharik state, or because you have in some way insulted the devatas and that has produced this vaicharik state in you, he says you will still arrive at this same condition.
Kul prayog with a known or unknown kuldevi, and the kul Bhairav who always accompanies her
Bhairav as a pad held by the kula's protector
The speaker says a person will be in one of two situations, either knowing who the Kuldevi is or not knowing who the kula's shakti is, and the prayog is to be done in both. He says it is not only for the kuldevi but also for whichever protector devas of the kula hold the pad of Bhairav. He says one may take it as one hundred percent certain that a Kula Bhairava, a protector deva, is with the kuldevi whether one knows of it or not, in whatever pad, as a Veer, a Mahavir, in the form of Hanuman or of Bhairav. Bhairav, he says, is a pad obtained by a protective deva, possibly by an earlier siddha of the kula by the Devi's grace, and over time people forget or never learn of it.
The speaker says that first of all there will be two possibilities before a person. Either he knows about his kuldevi, who she is, or he does not know at all who the shakti of his kula is. In both conditions, he says, the prayog is to be done in the same way. He says the prayog is not only for the kuldevi. It is also for whichever protector devas of the kula there are, those who stand in the pad of Bhairav. He asks listeners to take this as one hundred percent certain: whether it is in their knowledge or not, with the kuldevi there are kul Bhairav, protecting devas. Whatever the pad may be, he says, a Veer, a Mahavir, in the form of Hanuman ji or in the form of Bhairav ji. Bhairav, he explains, is a pad that a protective deva obtains. It may have been some earlier siddha of the kula who received that pad by the Devi's grace, but such a protector exists. Over time, he says, people forget, or the knowledge is simply not there because no one passed it on.
When the kul havan is begun, at what hour, and for how many days
Purnima to Amavasya, or Navratri; twenty-seven days at best
The speaker says the prayog is begun on any Poornima and continued to Amavasya, fifteen days, or else in any Navratri from the first day to Dashami. It is done at sunrise or at sunset, but he says that if it is done at sunset one must not eat salt and the like that day, so morning is better; in Navratri upasana it may be done in the evening too. He says it should be done for at least twenty-seven days if possible, which is extremely good, and otherwise for the fifteen days or the Navratri span, in the morning.
Materials for the kul havan: kund, wheat flour, gud, ghee, chaumukh lamps, oils and sindoor
Purity conditions on every item, and what is forbidden
The speaker lists what is needed. A large earthen pot to do the Havan in, or a Havan kund of copper, never aluminium or iron, of medium size, because a vedi cannot be built here. Wheat flour, either wheat one has brought, washed and had ground oneself, or flour from a place that sells pure wheat for puja, two and a half to three kilos; good Gud from a puja shop where salt is not sold so it carries no dosha; and ghee. Two Chaumukh Deepak lamps each day, new ones daily, so about thirty for Purnima to Amavasya or twenty for Navratri, with mustard oil and sesame oil and wicks made of Kalava. And genuine orange Mahabiri sindoor, which he says is also called bakhra sindoor.
The speaker goes through what the prayog needs. First, a large earthen vessel in which the havan can be done. If you have a havan kund that will do, but it must be of copper, not of aluminium or iron. A vedi cannot be made for this, he says, so a kund is required: either an earthen kund or a copper one, of medium size, neither very small nor very large. Second, wheat flour. Either bring wheat yourself, wash it and have it ground, or bring flour from a place where pure wheat for puja-path is sold. For what he here calls an eleven-day prayog he says to keep at least two and a half to three kilos of wheat. Third, good gud from a puja shop where salt and the like are not sold, so that there is no dosha in the gud. And ghee. These three, he says, are the samagri. Two lamps are used, both chaumukh, and new lamps every day: if you do Purnima to Amavasya, thirty lamps will be used, and for ten days of Navratri about twenty. Bring both mustard oil and sesame oil and keep them. The wicks are to be made of kalava; make them in advance for the chaumukh lamps. Also bring the orange Mahabiri sindoor, which in many places is called bakhra sindoor, the orange one: the genuine, good-quality sindoor. Later in the talk he adds a little black TilSesame, black til in particular, central to pitr karma and to many ahutis. to the rot, cow-dung upale or mango wood for the fire, GangajalWater from the Ganges, used to purify and re-consecrate ritual items exposed to impurity., three or four kush and a mango leaf, AkshatUnbroken raw rice grains, held in hand along with water and flowers while taking a Sankalpa. or flowers under the lamps, and, if possible, a small silver lamp with a red mauli wick for the last day.
Who in the household may perform the kul havan
Eldest son or head of the house first
The speaker says the prayog may be done by the eldest son of the house or by the head of the house. In special circumstances the daughter of the house or the daughter-in-law may also do it, but he says one should try to have the eldest son or any son do it, because that is better. He asks that care be taken about who gets priority.
The speaker says this prayog can be done by the eldest son of the house, or the one who is the head of the house can do it. In a special situation, he says, the daughter of the house can also do it, and the daughter-in-law can also do it. But he asks that one try to have the son of the house do it, the eldest son, or any son at all, because then it is much better. He repeats that in a special situation the daughter and the daughter-in-law may do it, and asks listeners to keep in mind who is to be given priority.
The threshold rite of the kul havan: kush and mango leaf, five tilaks and the two lamps at the main door
Mustard oil right for Bhairav, sesame oil left for the kuldevi
The speaker says the house is cleaned a day before and the prayog begun with a firm Sankalpa, at the main door of the house, or in a rented house at the door where one's own boundary begins. The door is wiped with a cloth soaked in Gangajal. A mango leaf with its tip cut off is bound at the back with at least three Kusha, dipped in Gangajal and hung exactly at the middle of the door; it is marked with Mahabiri Sindoor mixed with ghee, and five tilaks are made on the Chaukhat in the Kuldevi's name. Facing out of the house, a Chaumukh Deepak lamp of mustard oil is lit on the right for the kula's protector Bhairava and one of sesame oil on the left for the kuldevi, each set on a little Akshat or flowers, never on bare ground.
The speaker takes the first day as Purnima, or Navratri Pratipada. First, he says, clean the house well a day before, and there must be a firm sankalp in a completely pure mind. However great the trouble, false court cases, great bodily suffering, it is a ten to fifteen minute prayog, and even in great suffering it is to be done, whether the kuldevi is known or not. It is done at the main door of the house. If you live in a rented house, he says, then at whatever main door your rent covers, where your boundary begins. First wipe the whole door properly with a cloth soaked in Gangajal; even if it was washed earlier, wipe it again at the time of puja. Bring three or four kush, available at a puja shop, and a mango leaf. Cut off the front part of the leaf and tie at least three kush to its back part. Dip that leaf in Gangajal and hang it exactly in the middle of the main door. After hanging it, make a tika on it with the orange Mahabiri sindoor mixed with ghee. Then make a tika in five places on the chaukhat of the main door in the kuldevi's name. The chaukhat, he says, is the most important thing; where the kuldevi dwells he has told in earlier videos. Then, with your face towards the outside of the house, that is as you would be when stepping out, light a chaumukh lamp of mustard oil on your right side and a chaumukh lamp of sesame oil on your left side of the chaukhat. Put a little akshat or flowers under each lamp; a lamp is not placed bare, it is given an asana. The mustard-oil lamp on the right burns in the name of Bhairav ji, the protector Bhairav of your kula, and the lamp on the left burns in the name of the kuldevi. He repeats that the facing is outward, as if leaving the house, and asks listeners to hear this again carefully.
The daily havan of the kul prayog: the rot, the thirty ahutis and their order, and the ash
Namah is compulsory, Om is not; kuldibbe namah when the name is unknown
The speaker says fire is kindled in the earthen pot or kund with cow-dung upale or mango wood. Beforehand, after bathing, a Rot is made from wheat flour, Gud and ghee with a little black Til, cooked in ghee, then crumbled and divided into thirty pieces: twenty-seven for the Kuldevi and three more. Facing out of the house and working quickly, with the mantras said in the mind, the first three Ahuti go to Ganesha, the kul guru and Hanuman; if the Kulguru is known he comes first and Ganpati second, otherwise Ganpati first. The remaining twenty-seven are offered in the kuldevi's name with namah added and no Om, for example Durgaya namah, swaha being optional; if her name is unknown one says kuldibbe namah swaha. He says namah is compulsory here and the usual havan rule of swaha without namah does not apply. Afterwards water is taken in the hand, circled three times round the kund and poured there, the fire is left to burn out, and the ash is removed and collected in one place.
After the lamps, the speaker says, you kindle fire in the earthen vessel or havan kund you have kept, with cow-dung upale or with mango wood. But before that, after bathing, something has to be made. Take the wheat flour you brought, the gud and the ghee, mix the three, and add a little black til, only a little. Knead enough dough that one good rot comes of it, and make a good rot cooked in ghee. Then break the rot, crumble it, and from the crumbs make small round pieces like laddus for the ahutis. Twenty-seven ahutis are to be offered, so twenty-seven separate pieces are made. Besides those, three more pieces are needed, kept separately: thirty pieces in all. He adds that they need not be round; you can just break the rot and keep thirty pieces aside. Light the fire. Your face stays towards the outside of the house. It is to be done quickly, not drawn out, and the mantras are said in the mind. The first ahuti is in the name of Ganpati ji: take a piece in the hand and put it in the fire. The second is in the name of the kul guru, the guru of the kula wherever he may be, wherever the lineage runs. He gives the order rule: if you know your kul guru, the first ahuti is to the kul guru and the second to Ganpati ji; if you do not know him, the first is to Ganpati ji and the second to the kul guru. The third ahuti is in the name of Hanuman ji. Those are the three. The remaining twenty-seven, if you know your kuldevi's name, go in her name with namah added after it. If the kuldevi's name is Bhavani or Durga, there is no need to add Om: say Durgaya namah and offer. You may say swaha, there is no problem. If you do not know her name, say kuldibbe namah and keep offering, kuldibbe namah swaha. Namah must be added, he insists. The havan convention that when swaha is used namah is not, he says, will not run here; do it only in the way he is telling. When the thirtieth ahuti has been offered, take water in the hand, circle it three times round the kund and pour it there, and let the fire burn as long as it burns. When it has turned to ash, remove it, and keep collecting that ash in one place.
Closing the kul havan: a silver lamp lit from the last fire and taken to the puja sthan
Carrying the final fire indoors in the kuldevi's name
The speaker says that when the final Ahuti of the whole prayog is given, one should if possible buy a small silver lamp, make its wick from red Mauli thread, fill it with ghee, light it from that same havan fire after the last ahuti, and carry it to one's puja sthan and place it there in the Kuldevi's name. Until that last day, he says, one simply keeps doing the daily rite continuously.
The speaker says one more thing is to be kept in mind for the end of the prayog. When you give the final ahuti, if it is possible for you, if you can, buy a small silver lamp, even a small one will do. Make a wick for it from the red mauli thread, put ghee in it, and after giving the last ahuti light that lamp from the same fire. Carry it to your puja sthan and place it there in the name of the kuldevi. Up to the last day, he says, you have only to keep doing this daily work continuously; nothing more.
Precaution: the kush and mango leaf at the door are not changed until the last day
Tie it tight so it does not dry and fall
The speaker says the three Kusha and the mango leaf tied at the middle of the door on the first day are not to be changed until the last day of the prayog. He asks that it be tied very tightly so that it does not dry out and fall.
The speaker says that the three kush and the mango leaf which were tied at the middle of the door at the beginning are not to be changed until the last day. Take care that it does not dry and fall, he says; for that it must be tied very tight.
Result of the kul havan: the kuldevi's darshan in a dream, and repeating the prayog if nothing happens
Wait fifteen days, begin again from Purnima, do not give up
The speaker says that if this much is done, the Kuldevi will one hundred percent give darshan in a dream within the span of the prayog; one will at least get the guidance that the Devi is there, will understand whether she is pleased or not, and will receive guidance for what comes next. If nothing happens from one round, he says to wait fifteen days and begin again from Poornima, and not to give up after one attempt: if one's Prarabdha is such, if great mistakes or offences were committed, the punishment will also be of that measure, and many offences are ones people never speak of. He says the prayog costs little and nothing much is lost, but a great deal is gained.
The speaker says that if you do this much, your kuldevi will one hundred percent, within this span, give darshan through a dream, by one means or another in a dream. You will certainly get this much guidance: that yes, the Devi is there. Whether she is pleased or not, that too you will come to understand. And guidance for the way ahead will also be received. If this does not happen from one round of the prayog, he says, wait fifteen days and then do it again from Purnima. Do not accept defeat after one time, saying it is over, it did not work. Your prarabdha may be such; if you committed great mistakes, great offences, then the punishment too will be of that kind. There are many offences, he says, that people do not speak of. So do it again and again. Not much expense is coming in this, he says, and not much of yours is going, but a great deal will be gained.
Can another shakti take the chaukhat offering when an abhicharik prayog is running in the house?
Puja at the threshold reaches only the right receiver
To the question of how one can do this prayog if an Abhichara prayog or some tantra-mantra is at work in the house, since some other shakti might take the offering, the speaker says to be at ease: no one has the standing to take a puja done at the Chaukhat so easily. Whatever is given in the Kuldevi's name there, he says, is received by an ansh shakti of Bhagavati Parvati herself. The fruit may not come because of one's own karma, but the puja itself cannot go wrong there. Puja at the chaukhat, and puja at the chauk, that is at a crossroads, reaches only the right thing; a wrong thing cannot take it easily. So he says to do the prayog free of worry.
The speaker raises a question he expects from people: if an abhicharik prayog is going on, if some tantra-mantra prayog or this-or-that thing is in the house, how will we do this? There would be a problem, the shaktis would be taken by someone else, the bhog would be taken by someone else. Be at ease, he answers. No one has the standing to take away a puja done at the chaukhat so easily. Where you offer in the kuldevi's name, it is the ansh shakti of Bhagavati Parvati herself who will receive it. The fruit may not reach you because of your own karma, that is a separate matter; but your puja there cannot go wrong. Puja at the chaukhat, and puja at the chauk, that is at the chauraha, goes only to the right thing, he says; a wrong thing cannot take it quickly. So he tells listeners to do this prayog free of worry, and says extremely great benefit will come from doing it.
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