Why Tantric Abhichara Doesn't Get Fully Destroyed, and the Dooj Remedy
Why malevolent sorcery often resists destruction.
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Mindset of an enemy who commissions abhichar, and why such an enemy is one's own prarabdha
Ruin by money, people, life or disease
The speaker says that anyone who holds enmity toward you wants only to ruin you by any means: through money, through people, loss of life, death-like suffering for the people of your house, diseases of different kinds. He notes that knowledgeable people say it is not always Abhichara, that our own karma has its Prarabdha. He tells the listener to know clearly that it is that very prarabdha of our karma that someone has become our enemy and has nursed such enmity that he is doing tantra-mantra and abhichar for our destruction and downfall.
Before giving any remedy, the speaker says one must first know the mindset of enemies who do Abhichara karma. He says it is a simple matter: if anyone holds enmity with you, he will want only one thing, to ruin you in any way at all. Whether through money, through people, through loss of life, through death-like suffering for the people in your house, or through different kinds of disease taking hold. He then reports what knowledgeable people say: that it is not always abhichar karma, that our own karmas also have a PrarabdhaThe portion of destiny already set in motion by past actions — spiritual practice and good deeds can lessen its severity, but not eliminate it.. He answers that the listener should know this fully: it is exactly the prarabdha of our karmas that someone has become our enemy at all, and that this enemy has nursed so much enmity in his mind that he is doing tantra, mantra, abhichar karma and the like for our destruction, our ruin and our downfall.
Why a tantra kaat gives only temporary relief: the enemy's resolve versus the victim's wavering
One counts money, the other counts damage
The speaker says the usual course is to go to a Sadhak, learn that someone has done Abhichara on you, and get it cut, but after some relief the thing again overpowers you and the decline stays as before. He says the biggest reason is that the sadhak cuts and returns the abhichar with whatever vidya he has, but the enemy's whole purpose is to cause you pain: he is blind with enmity, never looks at the money, and goes straight back to his baba saying only this much damage happened, do more. The sufferer, by contrast, counts every 5,000 and 10,000 rupees spent at ten places, has no firm faith in the sadhak he went to, and wants one visit to destroy the whole process for good, which the speaker says is not possible for anyone.
The speaker describes what people ordinarily do: they go to some SadhakOne who undertakes a sadhana; the practitioner as distinct from the ordinary worshipper., learn from him that such-and-such person, or anyone, has done Abhichara karma on them, and get its kaat done. But after relief for some time, that same thing again takes hold over them, and the decline stays just as it was in the first place; there is no gain. He asks why this happens. He gives the biggest reason. A simple, ordinary person who is suffering all this goes to whoever he goes to, and that person, with whatever vidya he possesses, cuts the abhichar karma and returns it. But the enemy's very purpose is to cause you pain. It is the chief purpose of his life; he has gone blind, his wits are gone, once he takes up enmity and picks up such karmas, saying that so-and-so is my enemy and I will uproot him completely, destroy him completely, only then will I sit in peace. Such a person then does not look at the money. The one who is suffering, the speaker says, does look at the money. When he goes to ten places he says brother, 5,000 went there, 10,000 went there, I am getting no relief, or I got relief only for a month or two. But the one who is getting it done never looks at whether it is 5,000 or 10,000. He goes straight to his baba and says: this time only this much happened, this time only his hands and feet broke, this time the cow of his house died, then the bull died, this time the accident was only this bad, only this much loss, this much business loss; now do more to him. His faith in whichever sadhak he has gone to, whoever is doing those evil karmas, is firm. The sufferer, whichever sadhak he goes to, is not very firm. He says baba, you did it, I got relief for 15 days, then this happened, then that happened. The speaker says his faith is not firm there because he wants to go once and have the baba do something so that this whole process is destroyed badly and he becomes safe. The speaker says this is not possible; it is not possible for anyone.
No protective ghera or bandhan lasts forever: sutak breaks it and the enemy gets it cut
Finding which devata's vachan holds the bandhan
The speaker says that whatever protective ghera, Bandhan or the like any sadhak puts on you, however much effort he puts in, it stays for a limited time only. If you enter any Sutak, it breaks. And since the enemy is getting strong Abhichara done, he will cut your bandhans: he will look at which devata's vachan the bandhan was placed with, whether you have done tantra-mantra, which shakti is protecting you, and he will certainly get it cut.
The speaker states a limit that applies to everyone. Any protective ghera, Bandhan and so on that any sadhak places on you, no matter how much he does to place it, will remain for a limited time. He gives one way it fails: if you go into any Sutak, it will break. He gives the other. The enemy in front of you, because he is getting powerful Abhichara done, will cut your bandhans. He will look at which devata's vachan the bandhans were placed with, whether you have done tantra-mantra, which shakti is protecting you, and he will get it cut, without fail.
Only regular worship of one's own kul devi-devata and kul shaktis holds a house against abhichar
A borrowed shakti cannot hold a house whose own shaktis are bound
The speaker says that until you begin your own sadhana, until regular puja-path and the uplifting of the devatas begins in your house, until you begin to awaken your own kul's devi-devatas and Kul Shaktis and give them Bhog and pujan, and until they actually begin to receive it, you will have to keep suffering. He explains it technically: your house's own shaktis are not standing with you because the enemy has removed or bound them through Abhichara or a vachan, so a shakti brought from someone else can only stay with you for so long, and one cannot keep fighting on others' strength or keep paying others again and again. He adds at the end that complete freedom may or may not come, but the effort can certainly be made.
The speaker says the suffering continues until certain things begin: until you yourself start doing sadhana; until the uplifting of the devatas in your house and their regular puja-path begins; until you begin to awaken the devi-devatas of your own kul, your kul's shaktis (Kul Shakti), and begin giving them BhogThe food offering placed before a deity before anyone in the household eats., pujan and path; and until they actually start receiving it. Until then, he says, you will have to keep suffering. He asks the listener to understand it technically. When there is no one left to protect you, how long will a shakti you have brought from someone else stand with you? The shaktis of your own house are not supporting you at all, because the enemy, by Abhichara karma or by taking them under a Bandhan or a vachan, has removed them, bound them, whatever he has done. So how many days will you fight on someone else's trust, and how long will you keep paying others again and again? Later, closing the talk, he says that more videos will show how one can fight all this oneself, and adds a caveat: whether one becomes completely free or not is a separate matter, but the effort can certainly be made.
Judging a practitioner's tantra kaat: check his capability first, then watch how long the relief lasts
The baba who "ate the money" probably did his work
The speaker says people keep complaining that this or that baba ate their money, and answers that of course he will take money; his job is only to do the work that came before him when you went. You got relief for some time, the enemy removed it again, and you concluded the practitioner did not do his job. He says that if the practitioner was truly knowledgeable he would have done it, because he has the honour of his gaddi, his sthan and his own devatas' shaktis to keep. His rule: before going, find out whether the person has the capability; if he is capable and is doing your work, then watch for how many days his effect lasts and whether you get relief. Know these things technically; shouting does not help.
The speaker addresses the habit of saying again and again that such-and-such baba ate so much money, this baba ate so much money. He answers: of course they will take it. Their work is only this much, that you went, whatever work came in front of them, they did it. You got relief for some time. The enemy removed it again. Once it was removed you started getting troubled, and you felt that the person you went to did not do the work properly. He says the opposite: the work must have been done, if he was genuinely knowledgeable. It will not be that such a person does not keep the honour of his gaddi, the honour of his sthan; he has to keep the honour of his own devatas' shaktis too, so he will certainly have done it. So, he says, the blame you put on the other person, that he ate my money and did not do my work, should be replaced by this: first check and then go, whether that person has capability or not. If he is a capable person and is doing your work, go having found that out, and then see for how many days his effect lasts, for how many days you get relief or do not. He ends the point saying: know all these things technically; nothing comes of merely making noise.
Finding your own kul shaktis through a sadhak's dhaar pujan and starting their worship yourself
Self-protection begins with your own house deities
On how to protect oneself from Abhichara, the speaker says: know your kul's shaktis. Ask whichever sadhak you are going to about them; by giving dhaar pujan and the like they will call them and tell you what shaktis are here, which devi and devata belong to your house, and what their pujan and Bhog are. Once told, begin your own pujan-path by the vidhi-vidhan they give. He says it is not rocket science and one can do it; only for checking whether the devatas are actually receiving the bhog one may need a sadhak, and even then one may still do it oneself. He says he has already put out many vidhans on this for those who find no sadhak to tell them, covering household shaktis and kul Pitr too.
The speaker turns to the second matter: how to do it yourself, how to try to protect yourself from Abhichara and the like. As he said earlier, know the shaktis of your kul. Take information about them from the sadhaks you are going to anyway. By giving dhaar pujan and so on, they will call them and tell you what shaktis are here, which devi is of your house, which devata, and what their pujan and BhogThe food offering placed before a deity before anyone in the household eats. is. When they have told you, begin your pujan and path by that vidhi-vidhan, the one they have told you. He says he has put many videos on his channel where he has practically had people do this: for those who are getting no information anywhere, or who have no sadhak who can tell them all this, how to find out about the shaktis of their own house, how to learn about the kul Pitr, how to give them bhog and pujan, what to do. He says once you look, you will understand it yourself; you can do it, it is not a very big rocket science. He adds one qualification: giving pujan, path and bhog to your house's devi-devatas is one thing, but to know whether they are actually receiving it or not, you may need a sadhak. Even so, if you wish, you can do it. He says he has told many vidhans and one should look at them.
Refuge in Mahadev when abhichar has not lifted for years
Every abhichari is himself in Shiva's refuge
Asked what a person should do who has been gripped by Abhichara for five years, has gone from place to place and still the abhichar has not lifted, the speaker says the first thing is to take the refuge of Bhagwan Mahadeva. He says that if Mahadev is pleased, there is nothing greater than him for stopping every kind of abhichar karma; if he wishes, everything can be destroyed. The reason he gives: every abhichari lives in Mahadev's own refuge and does the puja and seva of one or another of his forms.
The speaker poses the case: a person has stayed afflicted by Abhichara karma for five years, kept going from place to place, and his abhichar has not been removed. What should he do? He answers that the very first thing is to accept the refuge of Bhagwan Mahadeva. If Mahadev becomes pleased, there is nothing at all greater than him for stopping every kind of abhichar karma. If he wishes, everything can be destroyed. He gives the reason: every abhichari lives in Mahadev's refuge alone, and does the puja and seva of one or another of his forms.
Dooj or amavasya milk offering to Shiva against abhichar: the procedure
Kulhad of desi cow milk, barefoot to the shivling
The speaker gives a small but very strong remedy for a house or person under heavy Abhichara, done on Amavasya or on Dooj of either paksha, whatever the weekday, in Pradosha within half an hour after sunset. Take milk of a single-colour desi cow, one and a quarter litres if it is for many people or one paav if for oneself alone, fill it into a clay Kulhad, place it at your pujan sthan and pray to Mahadeva to protect the house and to remove and bind any negative shakti or abhichar that has entered. Then, at once and barefoot, go to a nearby temple, pour the milk over the Shivling, leave the kulhad there upside down, do pranam and return. Nothing else: nothing mixed into the milk, no dhoop or deep, only the milk. He says this is a starting point for people who do no puja beyond an ordinary dhoop-deep; a second, stronger remedy that needs pujan and some spending on materials he withholds for a separate video.
The speaker says the best upaya is done on the day of Amavasya or on the day of Dooj, and by dooj he means either the dooj of shukla paksha or the dooj of krishna paksha; on both one can do this small upaya, which he calls very strong. It is for a house where someone, or the whole family, is under a very heavy effect of Abhichara. The timing: on whichever weekday the dooj falls, in the evening, in the Pradosha kaal; within pradosha, make sure the sun has set and do the work within half an hour of that. The materials: milk of a single-colour cow, a desi cow. Take one and a quarter litres if it has to be done for many people; if only for oneself, one paav of milk is enough. Take a clay Kulhad and fill the milk into it. Place it at your pujan sthan, wherever you do your puja-path, and pray to Mahadeva for everything: protect my house; whatever negative shakti or abhichar karma has entered the house, kindly remove all of it and bind all of it. He says he is describing this as a beginning for people who do no puja-path of any kind, who only light an ordinary dhoop and deep; they should start from here. Then, right after the prayer, go barefoot to a nearby temple and pour that milk over the ShivlingThe aniconic form of Lord Shiva worshipped at home and in temples.. Put the kulhad there upside down, do pranam and come back. Nothing else is to be done: nothing is to be mixed into it, no dhoop or deep is to be lit, nothing else at all. Just go, do this much, and only the milk. He says he is giving this one small upaya. A second, main upaya he had given earlier, for which he will make a separate detailed video; but to do that one you will have to do pujan-path and bear a little expense on materials yourself. He says he will explain all of it then.
Precaution: tension or kalah in the house may rise after the first milk offering
Let it happen and keep watching
The speaker warns that the first time you do the milk offering to Shiva, something or other will happen: tension in the house may rise a great deal, or there may be kalah, whatever it is. He says to let it happen, and to do the upaya and see for yourself.
The speaker adds what to expect. When you do the milk upaya the first time, something or other will happen: either tension in the house will rise a lot, or there will be kalah, whatever comes. He says: let it happen. Do the upaya and see; he is giving this one small upaya.
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