Why Tantric Abhichara Doesn't Get Fully Destroyed, and the Dooj Remedy

Why malevolent sorcery often resists destruction.

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Mindset of an enemy who commissions abhichar, and why such an enemy is one's own prarabdha

Ruin by money, people, life or disease

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 00:28–01:12

The speaker says that anyone who holds enmity toward you wants only to ruin you by any means: through money, through people, loss of life, death-like suffering for the people of your house, diseases of different kinds. He notes that knowledgeable people say it is not always Abhichara, that our own karma has its Prarabdha. He tells the listener to know clearly that it is that very prarabdha of our karma that someone has become our enemy and has nursed such enmity that he is doing tantra-mantra and abhichar for our destruction and downfall.

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Why a tantra kaat gives only temporary relief: the enemy's resolve versus the victim's wavering

One counts money, the other counts damage

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 01:13–03:16

The speaker says the usual course is to go to a Sadhak, learn that someone has done Abhichara on you, and get it cut, but after some relief the thing again overpowers you and the decline stays as before. He says the biggest reason is that the sadhak cuts and returns the abhichar with whatever vidya he has, but the enemy's whole purpose is to cause you pain: he is blind with enmity, never looks at the money, and goes straight back to his baba saying only this much damage happened, do more. The sufferer, by contrast, counts every 5,000 and 10,000 rupees spent at ten places, has no firm faith in the sadhak he went to, and wants one visit to destroy the whole process for good, which the speaker says is not possible for anyone.

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No protective ghera or bandhan lasts forever: sutak breaks it and the enemy gets it cut

Finding which devata's vachan holds the bandhan

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 03:17–03:38

The speaker says that whatever protective ghera, Bandhan or the like any sadhak puts on you, however much effort he puts in, it stays for a limited time only. If you enter any Sutak, it breaks. And since the enemy is getting strong Abhichara done, he will cut your bandhans: he will look at which devata's vachan the bandhan was placed with, whether you have done tantra-mantra, which shakti is protecting you, and he will certainly get it cut.

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Only regular worship of one's own kul devi-devata and kul shaktis holds a house against abhichar

A borrowed shakti cannot hold a house whose own shaktis are bound

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 03:39–04:23

The speaker says that until you begin your own sadhana, until regular puja-path and the uplifting of the devatas begins in your house, until you begin to awaken your own kul's devi-devatas and Kul Shaktis and give them Bhog and pujan, and until they actually begin to receive it, you will have to keep suffering. He explains it technically: your house's own shaktis are not standing with you because the enemy has removed or bound them through Abhichara or a vachan, so a shakti brought from someone else can only stay with you for so long, and one cannot keep fighting on others' strength or keep paying others again and again. He adds at the end that complete freedom may or may not come, but the effort can certainly be made.

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Judging a practitioner's tantra kaat: check his capability first, then watch how long the relief lasts

The baba who "ate the money" probably did his work

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 04:24–05:14

The speaker says people keep complaining that this or that baba ate their money, and answers that of course he will take money; his job is only to do the work that came before him when you went. You got relief for some time, the enemy removed it again, and you concluded the practitioner did not do his job. He says that if the practitioner was truly knowledgeable he would have done it, because he has the honour of his gaddi, his sthan and his own devatas' shaktis to keep. His rule: before going, find out whether the person has the capability; if he is capable and is doing your work, then watch for how many days his effect lasts and whether you get relief. Know these things technically; shouting does not help.

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Finding your own kul shaktis through a sadhak's dhaar pujan and starting their worship yourself

Self-protection begins with your own house deities

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 05:15–06:40

On how to protect oneself from Abhichara, the speaker says: know your kul's shaktis. Ask whichever sadhak you are going to about them; by giving dhaar pujan and the like they will call them and tell you what shaktis are here, which devi and devata belong to your house, and what their pujan and Bhog are. Once told, begin your own pujan-path by the vidhi-vidhan they give. He says it is not rocket science and one can do it; only for checking whether the devatas are actually receiving the bhog one may need a sadhak, and even then one may still do it oneself. He says he has already put out many vidhans on this for those who find no sadhak to tell them, covering household shaktis and kul Pitr too.

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Refuge in Mahadev when abhichar has not lifted for years

Every abhichari is himself in Shiva's refuge

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 06:43–07:11

Asked what a person should do who has been gripped by Abhichara for five years, has gone from place to place and still the abhichar has not lifted, the speaker says the first thing is to take the refuge of Bhagwan Mahadeva. He says that if Mahadev is pleased, there is nothing greater than him for stopping every kind of abhichar karma; if he wishes, everything can be destroyed. The reason he gives: every abhichari lives in Mahadev's own refuge and does the puja and seva of one or another of his forms.

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Dooj or amavasya milk offering to Shiva against abhichar: the procedure

Kulhad of desi cow milk, barefoot to the shivling

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 07:12–08:53

The speaker gives a small but very strong remedy for a house or person under heavy Abhichara, done on Amavasya or on Dooj of either paksha, whatever the weekday, in Pradosha within half an hour after sunset. Take milk of a single-colour desi cow, one and a quarter litres if it is for many people or one paav if for oneself alone, fill it into a clay Kulhad, place it at your pujan sthan and pray to Mahadeva to protect the house and to remove and bind any negative shakti or abhichar that has entered. Then, at once and barefoot, go to a nearby temple, pour the milk over the Shivling, leave the kulhad there upside down, do pranam and return. Nothing else: nothing mixed into the milk, no dhoop or deep, only the milk. He says this is a starting point for people who do no puja beyond an ordinary dhoop-deep; a second, stronger remedy that needs pujan and some spending on materials he withholds for a separate video.

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Precaution: tension or kalah in the house may rise after the first milk offering

Let it happen and keep watching

· Reviewed Sep 14, 2026 · 08:54–09:03

The speaker warns that the first time you do the milk offering to Shiva, something or other will happen: tension in the house may rise a great deal, or there may be kalah, whatever it is. He says to let it happen, and to do the upaya and see for yourself.

The speaker adds what to expect. When you do the milk upaya the first time, something or other will happen: either tension in the house will rise a lot, or there will be kalah, whatever comes. He says: let it happen. Do the upaya and see; he is giving this one small upaya.

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